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November 01, 2019

Embracing Yourself Fully

By Tamara Laporte  |   in christmas workshop  | Tags: whimsy wonderland , quirky birds , self acceptance , self love , tamara laporte , willowing  

Quirky Birds first came to me about 6/7 years ago in 2013. I found myself doodling one day and ended up creating this odd/ strange/ asymmetrical little bird characters who seemed to be totally happy within themselves. They had a joy of life in them and a self love and self acceptance I envied for sure!

Unlike the humans in my world and culture, who are often busy criticising themselves trying to change seemingly unimportant ‘flaws’ and ‘quirks’, the Quirky Bird was blissfully herself and in fact celebrated all her little quirks and perceived flaws!

I was onboard with her message! I myself had and (still sometimes) suffered from perfectionism and endless self criticism often resulting in unhappiness and at times stopping me from simply enjoying life! So Quirky Birds with their self love message were very welcome in my life!

I go through phases of creating quite a lot of these little beings. Here are some of my favourites I’ve made over the years:

 

I’ve developed and changed techniques quite a bit over the years, my most recent Quirky Birds include techniques like:

  • ⁣working with watercolours & inks wet in wet⁣
  • incorporating collage⁣
  • looking at colour choices/ combinations
  • using unusual tools to change the quality of line work and mark making⁣

They are wonderfully fun creatures to create and function as a reminder for you too to fully love and accept yourself, just as you are, flaws and all. 

In my book, Create Your Life Book, I dedicate a project to this too:

Here is an excerpt from the book:

Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you!
– Dr Seussā€

Something that helps me cultivate happiness and contentment in life is being less judgemental and more accepting of myself including my more unusual and quirky personality traits.

We are often taught that we are not good enough and told we have to change things about ourselves to be ‘acceptable’ to others. I personally think it is harmful to people’s self worth and self esteem to constantly be told or given the impression that we are not good enough and have to change or improve on ourselves to be acceptable to society. I’m no longer interested in pursuing some sort of ‘elusive’ definition of ‘perfection’ and I have decided to embrace all my quirky and weird personality traits! I’ll tell you it’s a huge relief and brings much freedom to be at peace with yourself.

So, instead of feeling ashamed of the fact that we love to sing in the shower, wear bright purple clothing, talk to ourselves or that we are star wars geeks, I encourage you to embrace all of your quirky traits by embodying them in one of my signature ‘Quirky Birds’.

These little birds are easy to make, elicit great joy and can help you accept YOU for who you are, flaws and all. Quirky birds are deliberately created somewhat asymmetrically to represent that we all have flaws and quirky traits that make us, us. They are here to remind you that you are wonderful just as you are. Join me in making your own Quirky Bird as a reminder to always accept yourself wholly and fully including your unique quirky traits!

Buy this book here.


What do you do to accept yourself just as you are and what do you do to consciously be more kind to yourself?
I’d love to hear about it in the comments below!

I’ll be teaching this specific Wintery Quirky Bird on my new up and coming class Whimsy Wonderland which you may like to consider joining if you love Quirky Birds too! But I won’t only be teaching Quirky Birds on that course, I’ll also teach a wonderful Winter Girl and 9 of my artist friends have joined as well who all have some wonderful projects lined up for you all! Come check out here what we’ll be teaching. Much love!

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Bookworm Girl - In late 2014, I created a painting that became one of my favourites of all time. Not only for its cute quirky bookish girl and delicious textures in the background but because I felt it captured the pure magic of getting utterly lost in a good book really well.

As a kid, I was a ā€˜bookworm girl’, I read and read and read to the point my parents felt I was ā€˜too secluded’ and ā€˜should go out more’! But! I had books and friends in books and stories and excitement and adventures and wisdom and joy and humour and laughter and intrigue and mystery. Books provided so much solace for me, especially as someone who felt like an outsider who didn’t belong anywhere.

I belonged in the books with the weirdos, the heroes, the vampires & witches (hello Anne Rice!), the artists, the outcasts, the lonely ones hiding in secret gardens, the wise and wild old crones that lived in the forests with deer and cats, the seekers, the fighters, and the fierce souls who wore their hearts on their sleeves and never gave up.

I continued reading pretty much throughout my life though when smartphones entered the scene; I too became entranced by apps, games and social media and reading books got interrupted by the wave of technology. Until about 2 years ago I decided that I was no longer allowed my phone in my bedroom at night (my god the endless doom scrolling on TikTok did me no good) and so I ended up back on kindle and now I read again and I’m so so happy about it. I love disappearing into fantasy and letting the stories carry me away from the stresses of every day life for a while!

If you’re also a book lover (or recovering bookworm -haha), what stories swept you away? Which books still live inside you? Tell me your favourites, I’m always hunting for the next world to disappear into. šŸ’«

This is day 19 of a ā€˜gentle return to social media’ read more about this practice here: http://bit.ly/3IHFxir 🌱

PS: I painted this before certain things came to light about J.K. Rowling and Neil Gaiman, which is why their books feature here.

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Bookworm Girl - In late 2014, I created a painting that became one of my favourites of all time. Not only for its cute quirky bookish girl and delicious textures in the background but because I felt it captured the pure magic of getting utterly lost in a good book really well. 

As a kid, I was a ā€˜bookworm girl’, I read and read and read to the point my parents felt I was ā€˜too secluded’ and ā€˜should go out more’! But! I had books and friends in books and stories and excitement and adventures and wisdom and joy and humour and laughter and intrigue and mystery. Books provided so much solace for me, especially as someone who felt like an outsider who didn’t belong anywhere. 

I belonged in the books with the weirdos, the heroes, the vampires & witches (hello Anne Rice!), the artists, the outcasts, the lonely ones hiding in secret gardens, the wise and wild old crones that lived in the forests with deer and cats, the seekers, the fighters, and the fierce souls who wore their hearts on their sleeves and never gave up.

I continued reading pretty much throughout my life though when smartphones entered the scene; I too became entranced by apps, games and social media and reading books got interrupted by the wave of technology. Until about 2 years ago I decided that I was no longer allowed my phone in my bedroom at night (my god the endless doom scrolling on TikTok did me no good) and so I ended up back on kindle and now I read again and I’m so so happy about it. I love disappearing into fantasy and letting the stories carry me away from the stresses of every day life for a while! 

If you’re also a book lover (or recovering bookworm -haha), what stories swept you away? Which books still live inside you? Tell me your favourites, I’m always hunting for the next world to disappear into. šŸ’«

This is day 19 of a ā€˜gentle return to social media’ read more about this practice here: http://bit.ly/3IHFxir 🌱

PS: I painted this before certain things came to light about J.K. Rowling and Neil Gaiman, which is why their books feature here.

I sold the previous version of this painting already but filmed a lesson for creating cuties for it so I have another version of this cute doggo visited by a butterfly. It’s for sale too. Original painting by me! 😊 Email me on hello@willowing.org if interested xxx ā™„ļøā™„ļøā™„ļø 🐶

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I sold the previous version of this painting already but filmed a lesson for creating cuties for it so I have another version of this cute doggo visited by a butterfly. It’s for sale too. Original painting by me! 😊 Email me on hello@willowing.org if interested xxx ā™„ļøā™„ļøā™„ļø 🐶

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Great glittering goblins! The first 1000 places have already sold out!  Thank you for all your love, enthusiasm and excitement in response to this magical new course!! I’m befuddled with joy and thrilled to have such an amazing response! 
Now, if you had hoped to join for the lowest price ever, then don’t worry; we have opened up another 500 spaces at the super low price of Ā£109 GBP. So please get in there quickly if you want to grab A Year of Magic & Fairy Tales at this hugely discounted price, as spaces are selling fast!

Do not dilly dally, my dear, adventure favours the nimble-footed!
A Year of Magic & Fairy Tales
is waiting for you!
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JOIN ā€˜A Year of Magic & Fairy Tales ’ NOW!: 
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✨ The Magic Begins! ✨ 

Friends, I am SO THRILLED! We’re finally opening the enchanted gates to a new amazing creative experience! āœØšŸ™ŒāœØ 

A Year of Magic & Fairy Tales is here! For a limited time, the first 1000 magical souls can join for just Ā£109 (normally Ā£179). Crazy good deal!! ā™„ļøā™„ļøā™„ļø Hurry though, these spaces usually go fast!! 

Explore over 65+ mixed media art lessons, dive into fairy tales, myth, folklore and every day magic! Paint dragons, castles, and everyday enchantment; all with the support of 30+ beloved artists and a kind-hearted community.

Secure your spot and let’s create a year of magic & wonder together!

See you there!! 

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Black. šŸ–¤

After I finished Senior School, I went to an Art Academy in Amsterdam for a year. I was massively proud to have been accepted into two art academies in Holland because it was pretty hard to get into them, only about 30/ 40 people got selected out of 100nds of applicants each year. To be accepted into two Art Academies was a huge deal. Sadly the experience was not one I enjoyed much at all.

Coming from a vibrant, colourful senior school where art classes were uplifting and fun, I was shocked to discover that at the academy, it almost seemed sport to the teachers to ā€˜break down their students emotionally’, supposedly to make us better artists. Even the building itself was grey, devoid of any joy or colour. It was baffling; a place meant for creativity felt so grim and dark. šŸ˜”

The professors, too, each had their own peculiar ā€˜rules’. I remember being told things like, ā€œNever use black in your paintings, it’s not a colour,ā€ or, ā€œDon’t use purple, I hate purple.ā€ Looking back now, it’s almost comical; if every teacher had a forbidden colour, soon we’d be left with none! The arbitrary rules piled up, until it seemed like you could break one just by picking up a brush.

But the ā€˜never use black’ rule really stuck with me for years. I avoided it religiously, until this painting.

Yes, black can be a tricky colour. It’s bold, sometimes harsh, and can easily overpower a piece. But, when used with intention, I think black adds a beautiful sense of depth, contrast, and harmony. In this painting, I love how the black brings weight and grounding, making the other colours sing even brighter. āœØšŸ™ŒāœØ

I remember painting this piece in 2016 and feeling a sense of freedom. I let myself be looser and wilder; not only did I dare to bring in black, I also used fluorescent pinks, which can be just as challenging! Suddenly, all those ā€˜forbidden’ elements became a celebration.

I left the Art Academy after a year, feeling confused and a bit lost. For a while, they made me believe maybe art wasn’t for me after all. How sad, isn’t it, when a place meant to nurture creativity ends up clipping your wings? ... (continues in comments)

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Black. šŸ–¤

After I finished Senior School, I went to an Art Academy in Amsterdam for a year. I was massively proud to have been accepted into two art academies in Holland because it was pretty hard to get into them, only about 30/ 40 people got selected out of 100nds of applicants each year. To be accepted into two Art Academies was a huge deal. Sadly the experience was not one I enjoyed much at all. 

Coming from a vibrant, colourful senior school where art classes were uplifting and fun, I was shocked to discover that at the academy, it almost seemed sport to the teachers to ā€˜break down their students emotionally’, supposedly to make us better artists. Even the building itself was grey, devoid of any joy or colour. It was baffling; a place meant for creativity felt so grim and dark. šŸ˜” 

The professors, too, each had their own peculiar ā€˜rules’. I remember being told things like, ā€œNever use black in your paintings, it’s not a colour,ā€ or, ā€œDon’t use purple, I hate purple.ā€ Looking back now, it’s almost comical; if every teacher had a forbidden colour, soon we’d be left with none! The arbitrary rules piled up, until it seemed like you could break one just by picking up a brush.

But the ā€˜never use black’ rule really stuck with me for years. I avoided it religiously, until this painting.

Yes, black can be a tricky colour. It’s bold, sometimes harsh, and can easily overpower a piece. But, when used with intention, I think black adds a beautiful sense of depth, contrast, and harmony. In this painting, I love how the black brings weight and grounding, making the other colours sing even brighter. āœØšŸ™ŒāœØ 

I remember painting this piece in 2016 and feeling a sense of freedom. I let myself be looser and wilder; not only did I dare to bring in black, I also used fluorescent pinks, which can be just as challenging! Suddenly, all those ā€˜forbidden’ elements became a celebration.

I left the Art Academy after a year, feeling confused and a bit lost. For a while, they made me believe maybe art wasn’t for me after all. How sad, isn’t it, when a place meant to nurture creativity ends up clipping your wings? ... (continues in comments)
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